When conflicts or problems arise at The Forest School, we use Compassionate Communication (also known as Non Violent Communication).
Compassionate Communication helps the children to:
– notice and acknowledge what has happened when something goes wrong
– express how they feel and hear how others feel
– explore what it is they and others are needing and to think creatively about how everyone’s needs can be met.
Linked to this, we view ‘challenging’ behaviour as a child striving to meet their needs and needing support to do this in more skilful ways. We do not operate a punishment or rewards system.
To support this approach we have three principles that are at the core of our work and which we teach children:
– Take care of ourselves
– Take care of others
– Take care of nature
We use these as reference points – from which we discuss with the children how we can be in the forest together in ways that reflects our core belief -that everyone’s needs matter.